Brenda Knight

Author Interview: Brenda Knight – Author, Meditator, Runner


I interview wellness authors to seek out out what makes them tick and why they write the books they do. 

I name Brenda Knight my “Fairy Godmother.” And I’m not likely joking. After the years of rejection I skilled, when Brenda informed me that Mango Publishing Group needed to publish my first e-book, Depression Hates a Moving Target, it felt as if she had flown down from the sky, swooped me up, and made my wildest goals come true.

As the Associate Publisher at Mango, Brenda is a gifted powerhouse, wrangling authors and juggling publishing particulars with a agency, however mild contact.

Brenda additionally writes.

A prolific, profitable writer, she is revealed beneath her personal identify and a number of other pseudonyms. Mango not too long ago up to date and launched one in every of Brenda’s finest-promoting books, Random Acts of Kindness: 365 Days of Good Deeds, Inspired Ideas and Acts of Goodness.

Selfishly, I needed an excuse to spend a while along with her. I knew you’ll wish to study her as properly. I hope you get pleasure from this interview as a lot as I did.

Nita Sweeney (NS): What prompted you to jot down Random Acts of Kindness?

Brenda Knight (BK): My inspiration for the e-book begins with childhood. I used to be raised in my mother’s faith, First Day Adventist, which may be very completely different from Seventh Day Adventist. I keep in mind being jealous of Catholic, Baptist, and Jewish individuals, and other people of all different faiths as a result of their beliefs appeared a lot extra fascinating. They had angels in heaven. They had hell and all that. First day of Adventist may be very plain. The backside line is “Be a good person.” Then, when Jesus Christ comes again on the Advent, for those who’ve been an excellent individual you get to remain in Heaven which is definitely right here on Earth.

I keep in mind considering “That is so not exciting.” I questioned why all my mates’ religions had been extra fascinating and had extra bells and whistles. But these early teachings of “be patient,” “be generous, “be kind with no expectation,” “be a good person, and “that’s just what it is to be a human on Earth,” labored their manner in there. They received on the exhausting drive.

Those early teachings labored their manner in there. They received on the exhausting drive.

When I labored at Canari Press, and Random Acts of Kindness was first revealed again in 1996, it went on to turn out to be a two-million copy bestseller. That was fairly thrilling. I particularly liked it as a result of I really like e-book publishing. I really like working with artistic individuals, writers, and designers—each step of the method.

But whenever you mix publishing with a objective the place you’re serving to individuals, to me that’s the final word. I needed to return to that purposeful publishing feeling. I needed to share acts of kindness that I like to recommend, however I’ve additionally included some new tales the place I don’t essentially come off that properly. But in these, I’ve realized a lesson and I share these classes.

When you mix publishing with a objective, that’s the final word.

NS: What an exquisite backstory to that e-book!

NS: In one sentence, what do you hope the reader will take away from Random Acts of Kindness?

BK: Be mindfully variety. Have that as a part of your being. I do assume persons are inherently good. You may argue the other, that the jails are full to bursting, and there’s all that dangerous information I see on cable information channels which could make me assume we aren’t inherently good. But there are research and documentaries about toddlers that present that as quickly as they will crawl, their inclination is to provide, to assist. That’s been confirmed.

We begin off variety. And all of us, together with me, get beat up by the world.

Over the years, that innate variety helpfulness can get stripped away. You begin to assume I simply have to get by way of my day. I simply need to survive in the present day. But if we simply take a breath and reorient, open our eyes, there are nonetheless alternatives to be variety each day in methods massive and small, even in pandemic America.

Maybe it’s one thing like adopting an elder cat which I not too long ago did as a result of it by no means occurred to me that nobody desires to undertake actually outdated cats in order that they get moved out for the kittens which can be extremely adoptable. And the outdated cats are herded into outdated cat properties which is sort of unhappy. I don’t know why I didn’t know that earlier than however after I found it, I assumed “Oh! I’ll adopt an old cat.” I form of really feel like an outdated cat myself. We can hold one another firm. And we do.

Be mindfully variety. Have that as a part of your being.

Adopting an elder cat is one instance of taking motion. I realized one thing and instantly questioned “How can I help?” Then, I took direct motion. Of course, not everybody can. Perhaps your landlord doesn’t permit pets. But there are simply methods to be variety. Ask the barista at your espresso place how they’re doing. Really cease to pay attention. Then you’ve created a relationship. As we undergo our day, strive to not let the spinning of this outdated world put on you down. Be mindfully variety. It actually turns into easy.

Brenda Knight

NS: With follow it definitely does. And that leads me to the following query.

NS: Writing and life will be aggravating. How you maintain your self?

For me, writing is a type of self-care, and I guess that’s not too overseas an thought for a sure Nita Sweeney. This week, I don’t have something that I’m writing personally, however I’m in all probability going to start out a brand new challenge subsequent month. I reserve writing time often throughout the time the Rachel Maddow present is on. But I don’t watch Rachel Maddow when she comes on. I’ve it DVR’d. It may very well be 8 p.m. to 9 p.m. or 7:15 to eight p.m. I reserve that point.

And it’s very meditative. My writing desk is by my backyard window. I can look out proper now and see the azaleas having their second bloom of the 12 months. The stunning fuchsia of these, the inexperienced of the newly rained upon garden, the plantings and the apple tree are very peaceable. I have a look at that and drink in that peaceable, pure magnificence.

Even if it’s raining, I’ll run out and perform a little marriage ceremony. Wedding is my remedy. It brings me a lot restoration and respite. It could come right down to a bit little bit of Feng Shui, however I oriented my writing desk by one thing that I like to look upon, simply gaze upon it. Because it’s in such a beloved peaceable spot that seems like a retreat, my coronary heart feels writing is one thing I look ahead to.

Weeding is my remedy.

Then I’ll gentle a scented candle and a stick of incense after which plop myself in entrance of my writing desk, and I often know what I’m going to cowl, so I’ve my part deliberate. I’ll additionally do some free writing. The manner I’ve arrange my writing space brings me a soulful sustenance. I maintain onto that and don’t let something get in the way in which of that.

There are two desks within the entrance of the home for my day job with Mango Publishing Group. I’ve a separation of church and state. This writing is only for artistic self-care.

NS: That’s so useful! I really like the separation of church and state. Thank you.

NS: Let’s change gears a bit and speak about your online business path. I as soon as heard you say that whenever you had been a bit woman, if somebody requested you what you needed to be whenever you grew up, you mentioned “an international business woman.” Will you inform us extra about that and the way that led you into publishing?

BK: Oh sure. I grew up up a holler on a mud highway on a farm in West Virginia on a farm which was pretty and tranquil. I had superior entry to Nature 24/7 and took full benefit of that. But I used to be a voracious reader from the minute I may learn. And I knew there was an enormous bustling world on the market. I needed to get on the market and see as a lot of the world as doable. Especially as a teen, I spent a whole lot of time eager about how I may get a job the place I can receives a commission to journey. I contemplated that as a result of these choices weren’t precisely in my neck of the world, in southern Ohio and western West Virginia.

I used to be a voracious reader from the minute I may learn.

When I moved to San Francisco, I truly received a job the primary week with an import-export firm. It thrilled me as a result of I used to be surrounded by individuals from all around the world, individuals from Taiwan, mainland China, Brazil, Mexico, Malta, and the Philippines. The lunchroom was full of individuals talking all these completely different languages. I might attempt to learn to say “Good morning” and “How are you?” and “How’s your lunch?” in numerous languages. I can’t start to inform you how thrilling that was.

I did no matter it took: answered the telephone, took orders, even drove a forklift within the warehouse.

But I knew in an effort to turn out to be a purchaser which is that job the place you go around the globe cease on someone else’s dime, I wanted to take an government path. So, I requested to be mentored by the executives. I used to be, and I did properly. As I’m speaking to you, I’m wanting round my residence. I see objects like from that point. Some of the nicest issues I personal, imported from Italy and India, are actual treasures from that job. I maintain onto that reminiscence in that manner.

I used to be tremendous excited to lastly be tapped to be a purchaser by the founding father of the corporate. He was a Merchant Marine who bootstrapped the corporate up from nothing. He mentioned “Tomorrow we’re going to look at the factories. We’ll visit India, Mainland China, Taiwan, and, if we can, we’ll work in a trip to Italy.” I used to be on fireplace and couldn’t sleep, champing on the bit to get on the market. I used to be in my early 20s and had not traveled in any respect, had by no means been exterior of the United States. This was my dream job.

I used to be on fireplace and couldn’t sleep, champing on the bit to get on the market.

Then he introduced in picture albums of the factories in India and Mainland China. My chin dropped to the ground. The images confirmed kids making the merchandise. That’s how I realized that, unbeknownst to me, I had been exploiting kids for the 5 years I’d had that job. I used to be horrified. I mentioned, “Those are children.” And he mentioned “Uh huh” prefer it was no massive deal. He’d visited these factories billions of occasions.

Unbeknownst to me, I had been exploiting kids for 5 years.

As I seemed on the images, I remembered my summer time job in excessive-college. I labored for a automotive dealership. I used to be one of many solely females who labored there and I drove automobiles and labored within the components division. The mechanics who repaired the automobiles and labored within the physique store had been my lunchtime buddies. They had been like artists. They took nice pleasure in how they painted the automobiles.

One of them, the oldest man, closest to retiring, didn’t wish to put on the masks and protecting gear they needed to put on when spray portray the automobiles. I at all times checked to see if he had on his masks.

When I caught him spray portray a automotive with out his masks, I scolded him in a caring manner as a result of I needed him to dwell. But at some point he began coughing and he coughed up blood.

Because of this, I knew firsthand what would occur for those who had been lacquering merchandise with out air flow and masks. It would hurt your lungs very severely. And I knew the youngsters within the plant in India lacquered the silver tea units and all the different issues that was lacquered. I requested my boss, the proprietor of the corporate “Where are the fans? Where’s the ventilation? Where are the masks? They are lacquering those product.” He mentioned, “I don’t know what you’re talking about.” And I mentioned, “Well I do. Without ventilation and masks, they’ll be coughing up their lungs before they’re twelve.”

It was like an out-of-physique expertise.

Some side of me was watching me interact with my boss, the founding father of the corporate, in shock about like how he was exploiting kids and harming them. And I mentioned “So you’re telling me like there’s no masks, no fans, no ventilation system to protect these children?” And he mentioned, “They’re happy to have a job, and you should be too.”

I mentioned, “I will not exploit children and you shouldn’t either. I quit.”

All these years later, I nonetheless can hardly consider I did that. I didn’t have very a lot cash. Every month when the lease got here due it was an enormous aggravating deal. I didn’t make a lot cash. Maybe I used to be being exploited too. I went residence and referred to as my finest pal Maria, and cried and cried and cried. She was an amazing shoulder to lean on. Then she mentioned, “All you want to do is read and talk about the books you’re reading. Why don’t you get a job in publishing?”

Then she helped me analysis native publishers one in every of which was Harper Collins in San Francisco.

After two informational interviews, I talked my manner right into a job in publishing and I’ve by no means seemed again!

Publishing was so thrilling to me. I couldn’t consider I received free books!

But thanks for asking about that have. It’s vital. Even within the face of starvation or whole impoverishment, I made a price alternative. It was instantaneous. There was no query. I used to be not going to use kids. And I introduced that sensibility with me as a result of as soon as I received a job on the government degree at Harper Collins, I shaped a committee the place we made certain that no kids had been engaged on the books particularly in China and India. And on the uncommon event the place we’re having books manufactured abroad, I at all times be sure that of that too. It’s vital as a result of it’s nonetheless taking place.

NS: Thank you for standing up, and for that reminder.

NS: Today, do you’ve gotten a motto or a slogan that you just discover useful in your day-to-day life or enterprise?

BK: The title of the writing journal you and I collaborated on “You Should Be Writing” is my motto. Even for those who work in tech or you’ve gotten an natural farm, you have to be writing for a lot of causes. First, it’s a type of self-care, at the very least in my life and it’s for a lot of different individuals. Also, you possibly can cross down issues to your kids and your kids’s kids.

Let’s say you run an natural farm. You may write in a journal concerning the expertise, the pleasure, and the difficulties and the way you face them. People starvation for these actual tales. And that’s what we’re. We are our tales. We’re like vessels stuffed with tales. No matter who you might be or what sort of work you do, you have to be writing. You needs to be needs to be telling your story. Record it whether or not by journaling or one thing extra deliberate like memoir. Or maybe poetry is the way you categorical.

“You should be writing” is my motto.

I’ve had individuals come again and inform me, even kinfolk in my household say, “I didn’t believe you about the writing. I didn’t think I had any anything important to say, but I found the process very enjoyable.” And, nearly invariably, one thing else occurs. As individuals write their story and retell it, extra particulars come by way of. They are serving to themselves keep in mind. They put collectively items of tales and features of life. That’s vital too. Writing may help you truly land on a extra full image, a extra full story of your life. And that’s vital too.

NS: I really like that recommendation as properly. Thanks.

NS: So, what’s the worst wellness or psychological well being recommendation you’ve ever been given?

BK: I’ve ups and downs with weight. I believe it’s a part of my DNA mixed with having a job that requires me to be fairly sedentary the place you’re locked on the laptop computer for zoom conferences and writing. The most up-to-date horrific recommendation I received was “Don’t drink coffee. You’re poisoning yourself.”

I’ve to inform you, if I didn’t drink espresso, which I significantly get pleasure from—I’m having fun with an oat milk latte proper now—I might not have a job. I’d be dwelling in a homeless shelter. Coffee is pleasant to me. And whether or not it’s simply an thought in my head or if it truly is caffeine energy, it makes me really feel like a “can do” individual. Now that I’ve a latte, I can completely deal with the 5 extra hours of stuff I’ve to do. So, no. I can not settle for that recommendation. I’ve to have my espresso!

If I didn’t drink espresso, I might not have a job. I’d be dwelling in a homeless shelter.

NS: Oh goodness. I couldn’t take that recommendation both.

NS: What is one wellness follow you want you had realized earlier?

BK: Walking. From rising up on a farm, I related strolling with work. Of course, I took every kind of little walks after I was a child. I gathered fairly rocks I discovered in a creek. I had a rock tumbler and made some unhappy wanting bits of knickknack for my sisters and mother. You’re allowed to try this for a sure variety of years after which strolling needed to be purposeful.

My dad walked the fence line to ensure there have been no holes. Walking at all times needed to have a activity hooked up to it. Walking didn’t have pleasure, enjoyable, or leisure related to it. I needed to rediscover it. And I believe a whole lot of different individuals did too, particularly throughout the pandemic. Just strolling. Walking for no purpose apart from strolling. To simply blow the cobwebs out of your head. Or run a bit errand. I reembraced strolling and let go of the concept that it needed to be chore-associated. Now, I get pleasure from strolling for no different purpose than strolling!

I needed to rediscover strolling only for strolling.

NS: I can’t love that sufficient.

NS: How a couple of writing tip or a bit of recommendation for the author varieties?

BK: I hope this isn’t too stale, however assign your self a phrase rely. It doesn’t need to be 2000 phrases an evening. I’ve executed that to myself and it may be stultifying. Maybe it’s 250 phrases which is fairly doable. Then, for those who go over, you’re forward for the following day. Whether you’re writing your November novel, or a self-assist e-book or memoir, have that very achievable every day phrase rely and follow it.

Brenda Knight reading in a pink room in pink light

It’s simple to get overwhelmed by a writing challenge, particularly for those who’re a bit little bit of a beginner. Writing a 55,000-phrase private development e-book sounds unachievable. You assume “Oh my goodness. I can’t do that.” But no matter you’re doing—I discover this relevant to every kind of initiatives—map it out into small doable chunks. When you meet your phrase rely or exceed it each day, mentally reward your self. Take a second to really feel pleased with your self. Acknowledge that, and that will provide you with momentum to maintain going.

Assign your self a really achievable every day phrase rely and follow it.

And right here’s one other factor. There’s a whole lot of dangerous recommendation on the market. Don’t strive every little thing you’re informed. There’s extra dangerous writing recommendation on the market than there’s good, particularly at writers’ conferences. And I really feel a bit naughty saying that as a result of I’m often at writers conferences yearly aside from the pandemic time.

But I’ve heard some atrocities being hurtled out at writers. And they’re so earnestly like consuming all of it in. Sometimes I believe “Oh my God, No! Please don’t do that.” And I can’t scream out and say that, however I can inform you to take heed to what resonates with you after which even double test that with someone you actually belief.

And simply don’t take heed to every little thing you’re informed.

NS: Can you give us an instance, possibly the worst piece of writing recommendation you’ve ever heard?

BK: Some writing convention presenters inform writers to only get an inventory of editors and ship all of them the identical e-mail. Well, we will inform! And you wasted your time. We can inform instantaneously. That time you spent slicing and pasting the names of fifty editors would have been higher spent going to Publishers Lunch, and searching on the high 5 editors and publishers who publish in your class, and querying them, and doing some research about them.

When you attain out, you say:
“Jane Doe, I noticed that you were the acquiring editor of the book Wild. I love that book and found it life-changing. Because you work with non-fiction women’s narratives and do it very well, I’m contacting you. I have one I think you might be interested in.”

Take time to analysis the individuals you wish to question. It makes such a distinction. Taking ten minutes to try this analysis will truly get your question checked out. We can all inform and we respect whenever you’ve executed your due diligence. You will likely be seen for those who simply take the time to try this analysis.

That’s what you probably did, Nita Sweeney, whenever you knocked on the Mango door.

NS: Thank you. And sure, I did my due diligence.

NS: We’ve coated loads. Is there something you’ll change about your journey?

BK: It was positively vital for me to have had that have being an “international business woman” which took me down the highway not taken and into publishing.

I’m even glad I labored for Rupert Murdoch, since News Corp owns Harper Collins. At the time I labored there, within the 90s, no person knew who Rupert Murdoch was. He was simply an Australian newspaper man, the mysterious world determine we didn’t need to pay any consideration to. Then when he began Fox News, I started to surprise “Who is Rupert Murdoch?” so I left at precisely the correct time. I joke that I went from working for the worst man in publishing to working with the kindest individuals in publishing with Canari Press, particularly with them publishing Random Acts of Kindness.

At the time I labored at Canari, no person knew who Rupert Murdoch was.

But there’s one factor I might need modified. As that farm woman who as going to be a global enterprise girl, I had the concept that I wanted to have a excessive title. I assumed I wanted to be vice chairman after which president. I had this trajectory in my thoughts that I by some means developed whereas dwelling on a farm!

Eventually, I did get a job the place I used to be vice-president of a global publishing firm. I don’t even have it on my resume as a result of it was a nightmarish expertise for me. I’m certain different individuals had a really completely different expertise, and I want all of them the perfect. But it was very male-oriented. There was even a bit little bit of a “bro” mentality, and I don’t combine properly with the “bro” mentality. I don’t assume most ladies in enterprise do properly with the “bro” mentality. It was depressing for me.

And as soon as I achieved that vice chairman degree, all I did was put out fires and cope with actually boring paperwork. I didn’t get to do what I actually like which is buying books, growing books and e-book packages, working with authors and inventive individuals. I simply shoveled paper from my desk to others’ desks.

While I want I hadn’t had that job, on the identical time, I realized an vital lesson. Titles don’t matter, not within the least. When I left that job, I grew to become writer which can be a pleasant title, though I had gotten over my obsession with needing a elaborate title. On my enterprise card, I had them put writer and workplace composter. And I used to be extra pleased with “office composter.” I labored out a complete system, and received all of the tenants within the constructing concerned. I even received the Berkeley trash and compost individuals to return over and meet with us. I took it very significantly.

Titles don’t matter, not within the least.

NS: I can completely see you because the workplace composter. Brava!

NS: So, the final severe query. “What’s next?” You hinted on the subsequent writing challenge. Do you wish to inform us about that?

BK: All I’ll say is that it’s Tolkien associated. It goes proper again to the farm.

When I used to be 9, somebody gave me The Hobbit and The Lord of the Rings. I began with The Hobbit and there was no turning again. My mother drove me throughout, together with many journeys to Columbus, Ohio, for books. Once I received into it, I needed to learn each biography of him ever written, and tales he had written that weren’t almost as common. I used to be a Tolkien completist beginning on the age of ten. My love for his writing and the world he created, Middle Earth, solely grows. So, I’ve received one thing up my sleeve that’s a bit Middle-Earthy.

NS: And lastly:

NS: Mermaids or goddesses?

BK: Mermaids. Double Pisces.

NS: Of course!

NS: Toast or bagels?

BK: Toast.

NS: Ocean, mountains, or forests?

BK: Forests, ideally Middle-Earthy ones.

NS: Leggings or denims?

BK: Leggings.

NS: Dogs, cats, fish, guinea pigs, or horses?

BK: And you possibly can’t say all?

NS: You can say all.

BK: I’m going to say “all” as a result of after I lived on a farm, we had all of these, and extra!

About Brenda Knight:

Brenda Knight Random Acts of KindnessBrenda Knight started her profession at HarperCollins, working with luminaries Paolo Coelho, Marianne Williamson, and Huston Smith. Knight was awarded IndieFab’s Publisher of the Year in 2014 on the American Library Association. She is the writer of Wild Women and BooksThe Grateful TableBe a Good in the World, and Women of the Beat Generation, which received an American Book Award. Knight is a poet, author, and editor. She additionally served as President of the Women’s National Book Association, San Francisco Chapter, and is an teacher on the annual San Francisco Writers Conference, Central Coast Writers Conference and wherever she will be with fellow writers. A scholar of medieval literature and trendy poetry, she lives in San Francisco, California.

Follow Brenda’s weblog, “Lower Haight Holler.”

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